Getting sick and never getting well again is like crucible, burning up any extra bit of energy, allowing the pace and demands of life to come into sharp enough focus that we might come to understand the critical importance of self-care. ...
This seems like one of the classic ironies of chronic illness. Chronic fatigue, it seems, does not lead to being a champion sleeper. There are many factors – known and unknown, that contribute to our sleep. While some of...
So, if sex (as referenced in the Part 1 post on this subject), is the elephant in my living room. I can either eat it, ride it, or keep it for a pet. Either way I’ve got to get to know it intimately and not avoid it. Okay,...
In the lineup of things in my life that are diminished by chronic illness – sex is in my top three. I have waited so long to write about it because, honestly, it feels like the elephant in my room. It’s taking up all the...
I am one of the luckiest of the chronically ill card holders, in my opinion; because throughout my time dealing with chronic illness, I haven't faced it on my own. Prior to getting sick and for the whole time since I have had the...
Chronic illness shows up and robs us of our plans. It reroutes the itinerary we had for our life. It steals the future we imagined. It diminishes our capacities and transforms our circumstances. It kicks our ass and...